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Belle's World - Breaking the Ice

Tips for Starting Conversations at Networking Events


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Walking into a room full of strangers at a networking event can be incredibly nerve-wracking, as your mind draws a blank on how to initiate meaningful conversations, the impending dread of stilted small talk about the weather and other mundane topics looms large, but taking a deep breath and arming yourself with a few key tips can help you smoothly start authentic conversations with ease.


  • Don't start with the weather or generic questions. Jump right into what's top of mind, like something going on in your family or a new hobby. This makes you relatable.

  • Be yourself. Share your real thoughts and personality. Don't put on an act. This diffuses awkwardness.

  • Listen and relate to what others share too. Networking is a two-way street.

  • Have some go-to icebreakers ready, like asking what brought someone to the event.

  • If you find common interests, dive deeper into those together. Shared connections breed comfort.

  • Business goals can come up organically later. Get to know each other first.

  • Remember, others also feel uncertain starting conversations. You're not alone!

  • Focus on learning about each other, not "what can this person do for me." Exchange, don't pitch.

The next networking event, try these tips to make authentic connections. Don't underestimate the power of starting real conversations. You've got this!


With practice starting organic conversations that feel natural, not forced, your confidence will grow. Before you know it, you'll look forward to networking. Stay true to yourself and have fun connecting.


What’s your best tip for starting conversations at networking events?

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